The First Step

A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.

 

A single step is what the nerds call a necessary but not sufficient condition for a thousand-mile journey.  A first step may not lead to a thousand miles, but you definitely won’t go a thousand miles without taking one.  It’s great to applaud our RVM volunteers as they cross the finish line, but this article is meant to show encouragement and appreciation for those willing to take that first step  — new volunteers, or volunteers in a new position.

Janet McGary, Chair of the Tutorial Committee

Jan has taken a big first step into the position long held by Bob Saunders, where she will be working with the tutorial committee to bring us enjoyable and educational presentation series on Friday mornings.  She brings to the job a master’s degree in Art History, as well as teaching and travel experience.  She looks forward to ideas and suggestions from interested residents.

Vicky Gorrell, secretary of the Dining Services Advisory Committee

Vicki stepped into a low-profile but critically important position.  Advisory committee secretaries create the posted minutes that not only keep committee operations on track, but also provide residents with an opportunity to stay informed about issues within the committee’s area of responsibility.  Vicki also provides, on her own initiative, weekly reformatted (8.5×11″. larger print) versions of the menus

 

Patty Robb, member, Birthday Lunch Committee

Patty steps into the position held by Carolyn Schenler for 15 years(!).  Patty and her husband arrived at the beginning of the lockdown, so has never seen RVM in action.  This is her very first first step into the RVM volunteer world, and she’s looking forward to learning what she and the committee will be doing.  We think she deserves extra points for taking her first step in the dark.

 

Annabel Ross, Resident Business Office Monitor

Do you photocopy, cut, staple, browse?  If so, Annabel is the one who keeps you going by stocking and organizing the Resident Business Office.  Although this is a relatively new job for her, it is far from her first first step — She is an Annex Sale functionary, a Neighborhood Coordinator for RPG, and someone who can be counted on to show up when a call goes out for volunteers.  Her inventory of first steps puts her in the running for the prestigious Millipede Award.

Michael Rugg, Resident Gardens Chair

Mike Rugg has taken over the garden plots management from Damon and Judy Simpson.  He and his wife are both gardeners, and he brings his experience and enthusiasm to his new volunteer job.  Mike and the gardens were featured in an article in the April issue of hillTOPICS (p 10).

Jordan Mo, Historian

Jordan stepped into the Resident Council Historian job to replace Daphne Fautin.  Her self-introduction was published earlier in The Complement.

 

 

 

Worker Bees keep things buzzing with sweet results

The Wellness Advisory Committee (WAC), currently co-chaired by Saul Krimsly and Dolores Fisette, has been the source of many new volunteer projects, staffed by many new volunteers (the worker bees).  Jane and Steve Harris, the former WAC co-chairs, have been instrumental in many of those.  Jane and Steve took their first first steps long ago, but every time you think your journey has ended, there is the opportunity for a new first step.  Theirs came when they re-enlisted at the behest of Dan Wagner after RVM went into lockdown and there was great need on campus for resident support.  I can’t do any better than quote Jane’s description.

“* In response to the isolation of the pandemic lockdown, we organized and I continue to manage the 2020 Card Writing project, where 28 volunteers have been paired with residents.  They communicate with their recipients through written cards, emails, phone calls, and walks.
* For the 2020 Holidays, at the suggestion of new resident Asifa Kanji, Saul and Dolores organized a Secret Santa activity where participants received the name of a resident and secretly provided him/her with a gift on Christmas Eve.  The Secret Santa received a gift from his/her own Secret Santa.  This livened up our Holiday Season.
*   A team of four of us – Barbara Moore, Dolores Fisette, Saul Krimsly, and I – created and managed the Valentine’s Day card making project for the children of Willow Wind Community School in Ashland in response to the beautiful Holiday cards they sent to us in December.  Over 60 residents created beautiful hand-made valentines, over 180 in all, that were delivered to the school.  This has created an intergenerational relationship with children outside of our RVM community.
*  Currently, a WAC member, Judy Blue, is organizing a Pen Pal Project with Willow Wind to be started in the Fall.”

Staff member Sarah Karnatz has joined the WAC and the worker bees and played a major role in developing and carrying out the programs — a great example of resident-staff cooperation.

So we had 28 card writers, 60 valentine makers, and significant numbers of Secret Santas and pen-pals stepping up.  It would be great to acknowledge the worker bees individually, but we have to do it on a whole-hive basis.  With all of those legs they should be able to keep up a whole lot of stepping, as long as they heed the COVID warning:  keep six feet apart.

Still More Words at Play

Priceless Treasures Excavated by the Consummate Word-miner,

Tom Conger

 

“When I use a word,” Humpty Dumpty said, in rather a scornful tone, “it means just what I choose it to mean—neither more nor less.”

“The question is,” said Alice, “whether you can make words mean so many different things.  Through the Looking Glass – Lewis Carroll

 

For this chapter, we are indebted to Why Do We Say That?  compiled by Graham Donaldson and Sue Setterfield, Dorset Press 1989.

 

Put a sock in it! – “In these days of compact discs, videos and digital recordings, it is astonishing to think that only fifty years ago [1939] people used wind-up gramophones with the sound emerging from a large horn. A volume control was a thing of the future. So when Aunt Agatha complained of that dreadful Charleston noise there was only one thing to do—put a sock in it—literally.  One or more woolen socks were pushed into the horn of the gramophone to muffle the sound. Today it means, quite simply: ‘shut up’.“

 

load of old codswallop – “When somebody says something which is nonsense, far-fetched, or simply untrue, they are often accused of speaking ‘a load of codswallop.’  We have a certain American gent called Hiram Codd to thank for this colourful expression. In 1875 he patented a  special bottle of mineral water which became very popular—except among hardened beer drinkers.  The word ‘wallop’ was already well in use to describe alcoholic drinks and so, sneeringly, Hiram’s concoction—and other weak drinks—became known in bars as ‘Codd’s Wallop.’ Gradually, anything inferior or false became known by the single word ‘codswallop’.”

 

toady – “This saying is used to criticise somebody who, to further his own ends, says or does anything to please his superior.  It comes from the days of traveling medicine men in the American ‘Wild West.’ They used to sell useless potions to the public. Taking advantage of the popular but false belief that toads were extremely poisonous, the ‘quack’ doctor would get an accomplice to swallow, or pretend to swallow, a toad. He would then immediately drink one of the doctor’s potions and, much to the amazement of the crowd, walk away fit and well.”

 

hair of the dog – “After a party, it is not unusual for some of the guests to wake up the next morning with a hangover. The cure is said to be another drink, or ‘The hair of the dog.’  This is based on the superstition that people who are ill after being bitten by a dog can only be cured by swallowing a piece of burnt hair from the same animal. In truth, the ‘cure’ seldom works.”

 

rigamarole – First you do this, then you do that, then you do another thing, then…oh, what a rigamarole!’ That’s just what we call a long, involved, complicated way of doing things.  The 700-year old expression began life as the Ragman Roll, given to King Edward,I by Scottish noblemen. Each signed a deed pledging loyalty to the king and affixed his seal. The deeds were then joined together to form a document 40 feet long!  The Ragman Roll is kept at the Public Records Office, London.”

 

deadline – A deadline is the final time by which a job must be finished. Journalists use the word a lot [see: The Complement…]. If they don’t meet their deadline their work is useless [not going there…]—or dead—because it will have missed the edition.  The phrase comes from the American Civil War in the 1860s. A line was marked all around the wire fence of the Andersonville prisoner-of-war camp and any prisoner seen crossing the line was, without warning, shot dead.”

 

“A word is not a crystal, transparent and unchanged, it is the skin of a living thought and may vary greatly in color and content according to the circumstances and the time in which it is used.”

Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes

Return of the Hex

Apeirogon

a book review by Connie Kent

A horrible book. Horrible and horrifying. It’s shocking, distressing, confusing, sad. And it’s true. Apeirogon Cover

This disturbing tale is presented as a novel set in contemporary times. An Israeli man and a Palestinian man each lost a daughter to violence. The Palestinian man’s ten-year-old daughter was hit in the back of the head with a rubber bullet (a metal bullet with a rubber coating) as she stood outside a candy store with her friends during a morning break from school. The shooter was an eighteen year old Israeli soldier. Ten years earlier, the thirteen year old daughter of the Israeli was one of several victims of a Palestinian suicide bomber. Eventually, the men became friends participating in an organization that presents lectures worldwide, educating the rest of us and urging peace.

It’s a long book. It has 1001 chapters. Some are as short as one sentence, others cover several pages. Chapter numbers reach a peak in the middle and then reverse back to chapter one in the second half.

Apeirogon’ means “a shape with a countably infinite number of sides.” How can that be? It comes up several times in the book. It may refer to the infinite number of sides of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, with people of many different nations having a share; it may refer to the fact that, if you follow the line around the figure, you always come back to the starting point. That was explained somewhere in the book. It’s an unhappy story, a horrifying book – not a happy read. But it’s an important one.

McCann, Colum. Apeirogon. Random House, 2020.

Tutorial videos

Challenges for Godmothers and Goddaughters

by Connie Kent

photos by Gary Crites

 

The Fairy Godmother Scholarship Program is supporting ten first year students, ten second year students, four juniors and four seniors at various Oregon colleges and universities. Like many organizations, the Fairy Godmother Scholarship Committee has had to re-invent its operations due to the pandemic.

Each high school in Jackson County is allotted a certain number of applications based on the school’s enrollment. Usually in the fall, high school counselors are invited to an after-school meeting to learn about the details of the scholarship. This year, the meetings were held via Zoom.

Counselors invite the most qualified girls to apply. They must have financial need, have remarkable grades, take advanced classes, participate in extracurricular activities and volunteer work, and some also work many hours for wages. Here are the 2020 scholarship winners. During high school, the girls all demonstrated strong motivation and determination to pursue their goals and improve their lives and their communities, sometimes while overcoming difficult conditions at home.

Completing the application in electronic form is a hardship for some of the girls. Schools have made Chromebooks available for distance learning, but access to the Internet is a problem for some. The high school counselors help the girls overcome these obstacles.

In March, Committee members will go to their computers to begin reviewing thirty-plus completed applications, something that previously was done with paper copies. Using a rubric, they will evaluate each application. Then they will meet remotely to compare scores and choose the top candidates to interview. Finally, rather than meeting the girls at the high schools, they will invite them to Zoom interviews.

Each scholarship recipient is offered a fairy godmother to serve as her mentor. This older woman volunteers to provide whatever assistance the girl might need as she adjusts to college life. Since many of the girls are the first generation to attend college, such help often isn’t available from home. In addition, many of the girls come from heartbreaking family backgrounds, and the presence of a mentor in their lives is critical.

Mentors are recruited, encouraged and supported by experienced Committee members, all remotely. Mentors maintain contact with their fairy goddaughters by text, email, snail mail, and/or video conferencing. Here is a picture of mentors of the 2020-21 academic year.

Since the program began in 1997, the Fairy Godmothers have awarded almost 400 scholarships. The Program is funded entirely by donations. It operates under the umbrella of the RVM Foundation’s 501(c)3 tax status. Each girl receives a sizeable scholarship of $5000 per year. While they are attending college, the girls are monitored to ensure that they maintain the standards that qualify them for ongoing scholarship support.

In the past, a Donor Celebration was held each year, to which new Manor residents and previous donors were invited. At the late afternoon gathering, scholarship recipients spoke about how the program has affected their lives. Moved by what they heard, Manor residents and members of the community have responded with generous donations. This year, a “Have a Heart” campaign is being conducted by mail, with written testimonials rather than speeches.

Here is one such testimonial, from Julissa:

The Fairy Godmother Scholarship means that as a first-generation student, I have the opportunity to pursue my dream of becoming a Registered Nurse. I have a strong group of women who believe in me as an individual and as a student, and I have an amazing mentor, — , who is always there to answer questions and check up on me. The Fairy Godmother Scholarship means that I have wonderful women who believe in my overall goal to help our community.”

Haily wrote, “I am so appreciative to have received this award towards helping me achieve my goal to become the first college graduate in my family. . . I am so excited to start the next chapter in my life with the help of my mentor.  I am so grateful for this scholarship and your faith in me.”

The Fairy Godmothers’ lives are enriched by sharing in the lives of aspiring local girls, providing them with new opportunities during this time of challenges and change.

What’s New — March

NEWS & VIEWS

SPECIAL OPPORTUNITY  — PLEASE TAKE A MINUTE TO LET US KNOW  YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THE COMPLEMENT!

CLICK HERE AND ANSWER A FEW BRIEF QUESTIONS

Instacart — Better than Sliced Bread?  (Part B), by Joni Johnson

Help Wanted Update:  Volunteer Opportunities Await! 

Challenges for Godmothers and Goddaughters, by Connie Kent

         in Big, Borrowed, or Both

Perspectives on Sustainability, communicated by Russy Sumariwalla

3550:  the Portland Mirabella quarterly magazine (most recent issue)

Mirabella Monthly, Newsletter of the Seattle Mirabella (most recent issue)

ARTS & INFO 

Digital Art, by Karen Frair

Nit Wit Newz (Botox in the Lake), by A. Loony

RVM Mar/Apr Event & Entertainment Schedule

in Books & Authors

March Book Display, RVM Library

Flight A Celebration of 100 Years in Art and Literature, — (Book Review), by Liz Caldwell

Apeirogon (Book Review), by Connie Kent

PREPARE

Quake Alert UPDATEby Bob Buddemeier 

RPG Radio Network, by Bob Buddemeier, Dan Curtis, and Scott Wetenkamp

       in Tips, Tricks, Hacks, and Hints UPDATE

 

 

The Complement Survey

Karen Frair- Computer Artist

Botox in the Lake

 

NIT WIT NEWZ

 

(Nit Wit Newz is an unauthorized, often unreliable, on-line news source designed to keep Manor residents abreast of the inconsequential, trifling and superficial events that dramatically shape and inform our everyday lives here at Rogue Valley Manor.)    

 

LAKE CLEANUP DREDGES UP MYSTERY WRECKAGE

 

Annual February cleanup of Manor lake reveals capsized “small ship.” Puzzled landscape crew finds hull of Quail Point Yacht Club boat filled with empty Botox containers.

Initial fears dismissed that seepage of chemicals from containers may have adverse effect on carp and koi well-being. Inspection by marine biologist declares, “Fish are fine”—but expressed surprise to discover previously encountered wrinkling in older fish “has vanished!”

News sweeps through Lake Village homes.

Residents make demand of new Grounds Manager, Alexander Baldwin. Want refill of lake to include abundant amounts of Botox additive. Despite continued chilly weather, same residents rush to order new spring line of swimwear from Amazon. Form committee to consider feasibility of bringing in sand and adding cabanas to make access to age-reversing waters more resident friendly.

Meanwhile, mystery remains: Who owned sunken vessel? Why was it carrying chemical cargo?   What caused sinking?  Date for official inquiry not yet set.  Yacht club commodore insists he’s “…not a person of interest.”

 

—A. Looney