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The New Friendship Table

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By Fred Sommer, member of the RVM Dining Services Advisory Committee

 

“Do you have friends or neighbors who do not use a computer, or who do not read RVMlist?  If so, please consider giving them a copy of this article.

Download the pdf file here: The New Friendship Table.

 

It is estimated that there are more than 150 RVM residents living independently who are single or whose partners cannot dine with them. With COVID there are limited options for dining or for meet and greet. Hopefully once all dining options are open and there are no restrictions, we can implement plans for welcoming and including those who might otherwise dine alone.

Meanwhile, there is a great need. Some of the postings on ListServ are “my hardest thing is finding people to dine with here at the Manor” or “I’ve lived in a cottage for 5 years. Without a friendship table life would have been very lonely”.

I am glad to report there is now a grass-roots movement of friendship tables. I believe it started with Yvonne Lynne suggesting “Invitation Tables”. This was picked up as a challenge by the Millers who reserved a table for six and invited others to join them. The response was so great that they could have had filled five more tables. At least six residents have reserved tables and invited others to join them. Most invitations were open, some preferred newer residents, others preferred foreign service or Peace Corps graduates. All tables were filled and all hosts had a good time.

As this issue of the Complement goes to press, dinner services have been temporarily suspended due to staffing shortages.  However, any meal can be shared, and many prefer the lower key ambience of breakfast or lunch.  And, of course, dinner will come back.

We have found that the responders that filled the tables were overwhelmingly established residents who have resided at the Manor for many years. We have not reached our newer residents, either as hosts or as responders, who are in greater need of creating friendships. Perhaps some of them are too shy or uncomfortable, or they are awed by and afraid to try Open Table.

       Open Table Tutorial

Open Table is easy. Go to MyRVM.org, click on “Dining” in the top row, and scroll to the bottom. You will see a headline “Open Table Online Reservations”. Simply select the number of people, the date, and the time for your reservation. You will see a new screen showing what times are open. If you see a time that works for you, click on it and confirm. This takes you to a new screen where you are asked to fill out your name, phone, and address. That’s All.

The problem is getting the reservation on the date and time you requested. My solution is to make a reservation as early as 7:00 AM for a date one week out. Please note that there are only a few tables for six and these tend to go quickly. If you can’t get one, try a table for four.

Now that you know how to make a reservation, all you have to do is have the courage to make one. Then send an email to rvmlist@groups.io (this is ListServ) inviting others to join you by responding to your email. You select your meal companions from those responding. You have nothing to lose, and who knows, you may meet a new best friend. Do try it!

So far, this program has been limited to residents who have and use a computer. We need suggestions for expanding it to those without a computer.

Please email any suggestions to fredsommer4@gmail.com. Thank you.

Neighbors Together

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Reaching Out to Create Community Connections

by Carolyn Bennett

We have had almost 16 months in altered reality. We are now dealing with changes that have made it difficult to function in the manner that was familiar and comforting. The concerns we are witnessing and hearing include:

  • It is easier to stay in one’s apartment to continue to receive “bagged” meals.
  • The reservation process is overwhelming to many
  • There is a loss of spontaneity for all of us to just show up for meals
  • or to go the The Bistro
  • The community table has disappeared
  • Many have lost their soul mates, altering life & creating isolation
  • And one of the biggest complaints is the quiet, closed door corridors in the Manor and the Plaza: There is a lack of connection with neighbors.

Recognizing these issues, Carolyn Bennett, Willi Zilkey, Holly Lawson and Lynn Ogren formed a committee, Neighbors Together, to address some of these issues. Thanks to the efforts of Sarah Karnatz and neighbors throughout RVM, lots of activities have provided a renewed sense of community. People are coming out to enjoy Mexican Train, Bingo, the RVM Farm Stand, and the Beverage Cart roaming throughout the cottages. Neighborhoods within the cottage area have gathered in driveways, under shade trees or on grassy slopes. Coffee and tea have returned to the Manor lobby and the Bistro.

However, not everyone has gotten involved and many still feel excluded. Some residents have become complacent with their “bag” life style. The new committee respects people’s choices; however, the main objective of Neighbors Together is to show kindness and caring to those who feel isolated and unimportant at RVM.

In collaboration with Sarah Karantz, the Beverage Cart will be in operation at the Plaza and the Manor during the month of August. The Neighbors Together is promoting this effort and providing hostesses for each of the following stops:

 

The new committee is on a mission to create social connectors throughout the campus. In the high-rises and in the cottage neighborhoods they hope to promote “Neighbors Together” time.

The hope is that in the Manor, the Terrace, and the Plaza, each floor will create a time for their neighborhood to come together by just gathering in one of their community areas. It is thought that perhaps each floor could have a person in charge of birthdays or other special recognitions to promote community well wishes. The list is endless of how we can create a feeling of belonging and kindness.

Sarah Karantz will assist any neighborhood with making reservations for a room and supplying tables & chairs either for a room setting or for a street party. The committee is here to help in any way they can. They are looking for some volunteers to assist with making their floor an inclusive and happy environment.

The testimony of the majority of residents at RVM is that this is one of the most beautiful and congenial campuses in which to live. We now just have to go the extra step to maintain this reputation. Thanks to all of you for extending your care and kindness to all who live at RVM!!!!

For more information please contact:

Carolyn Bennett (cjosmith341@gmail.com) or 6249

Willi Zilkey (willizilkey@gmail.com) or 6871

Holly Lawson (hflawson22@gmail.com)

Everything You Want to Know About Secret

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By Joni Johnson

Thanks to Janet And Jerre Scott, many of us were first introduced to Secret, the 6-year-old Australian Shepherd that is taking the world by storm with the video on dog and human yoga poses.

She belongs to Mary Peters, a resident of Bellingham, Washington, who is also taking the world by storm.  Unbeknownst to many, Mary has been diagnosed on the autism spectrum and Secret is her therapy dog.  She found her as a puppy in Scio, Oregon, and Mary started her Instagram account in 2015 at the age of 14, just a few months after Secret was born.  This picture appeared in her Instagram account “my_aussie_gal” in August when Secret was just shy of her 8 month birthday.  She chose an Australian shepherd because they are known to have a strong work drive and according to the American Kennel Club, they are remarkably intelligent, quite capable of hoodwinking an unsuspecting novice owner and a brainy and a tireless trainable partner for work or sport.

The reason that I say that Mary is taking the world by storm is that currently she has over a million followers and has been interviewed everywhere including Newsweek.  Her videos of Secret have over three million viewers.  As someone on the autism spectrum, Mary trained Secret to help her negotiate situations that were difficult for her.  Therapy dogs do a great deal to help people of all ages feel socially and emotionally secure.

There are three types of dogs recommended for people with Autism.  One is a companion dog, a second is a therapy dog and the third and most strenuously trained is a service dog.  For more information go to: https://www.autismspeaks.org/expert-opinion/service-dog-or-therapy-dog-which-best-child-autism

According to Loyalty Service Dogs, autism service dogs can help in many ways.  For example, they include tethering, deep pressure therapy, acting as a deterrent for self-harm, calming tantrums and meltdowns, acting as an anchor to help with bolting, confidence building, and more.

One parent described her experience after having a trained autism therapy dog for her daughter.  “I have slept through the night almost every single night since we got him, because Clara is calm and sleeping! This is such a huge change in our lives, I’m not even sure how to describe it, except to say that Clara is awake and cheerful when I come to get her in the morning!”

Mary is now 21 and will be entering University of Washington in Seattle in the fall majoring in Japanese with her service dog, Secret, beside her. She says in her interview with Newsweek that she couldn’t have made it through her community college classes without Secret. Mary started her journey as a home-schooled child.  When she started her Instagram account, she hoped her followers might help her with some teaching tips.  She spent a year training Secret as a therapy dog.  Then the training took off.

Mary uses a method called progressive reinforcement, a term created by San Diego-based dog trainer Emily Larlham. If you visit her YouTube channel, “Kikopup,” you will find more than 350 free in-depth dog training tutorials. “Progressive reinforcement is positive-oriented training without the use of physical or psychological intimidation,” Mary explains. “For example, I reward Secret’s desirable behavior and prevent unwanted behavior.” Each time that Secret completes a trick or something new, Mary gives her a treat.  She says it would take too long to explain how she trains Secret for complicated tricks such as playing piano or sledding, but Mary generally trains in very small, incremental steps over time to teach Secret a new skill.

From what I gather, Secret first started learning to paint because Mary found a video on Instagram of a dog who could paint.  From there it has morphed into yoga, skate boarding, sledding, Irish jigs, vacuuming, doing the laundry and then hanging up the dry shirts and much much more.  I thought her painting was extraordinary for a dog and even for many of the humans that I know.

In 2019, Mary taught Secret to play Jenga which is a game where each person must extract a piece of a wooden pyramid without causing the pyramid to fall.  Check out the video of her ability to concentrate and her knowledge of the game.

One of the amazing features of the bond that Secret and Mary have is Secret’s willingness to fall backwards into Mary’s outstretched arms even from a significant height.  This shows the incredible faith and trust that Secret has for her human.  Falling backwards is very difficult for most people, let alone for a dog because you can’t explain to them that you will be there to catch them. In one of her video posts she wrote, “ You need to show them that in everything you do, not just when they are physically falling.  Secret trusts that I will catch her, but more importantly, she trusts that I will be there for her in every aspect of life.”

That kind of relationship is a very special one but not impossible to duplicate.  How lucky we would all be if we had someone like that in our life.  Or if we were there for someone in that way.  It really is an inspiration.

Here is a five minute clip of ALMOST everything she does-including her painting!

Sources: instagram.com/my_aussie_gal, whatcomtalk.com, thesun.co.uk, https://encoredog.org/australian-shepherd  Newsweek.com,Autismspeaks.com

 

 

 

Peace Corps in Turkey 1967-1969

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by Joni Johnson

This is a series of articles about the Peace Corps as they were experienced by RVM residents.  They will be offered over the next few months.

My actual memories of my time in Peace Corps are limited because they happened so long ago and because I didn’t really keep a diary or make notes.  But what remains clear is how that experience was absolutely instrumental in my growth as a person.  Each story in this Peace Corps series will be different.  One happened around the same time as mine but in a different context.  And the other two stories took place in the lives of the volunteers when they were in their forties and fifties and sixties.  And of course, that in itself would affect a person in totally different ways than it affected me.  But in all cases, as you will see, being a Peace Corps volunteer was a life changing event.

I went into the Peace Corps in 1967 with my first husband.  I was a teacher of ESL at a Boys Boarding School in Izmir, Turkey, and he was there to help the new Tourism industry.  I can honestly say that it was one of the most important experiences of my life because of my exposure to another culture in spite of the beginning of the huge cultural upheaval going on in the United States thanks to the Vietnam War and the beginning of the Hippie movement.  I missed a lot of the major events of that era in the US- The assassinations of Martin Luther King and Bobby Kennedy, the Kent State Protests and those in Chicago as well as the trial of the Chicago 7.

View from My Apartment

On the other hand, I was immersed in the wonderful Turkish culture.  Many people talk of their Peace Corps life of fabulous emotional experiences but somewhat physical deprivation.  I definitely had the fabulous emotional experiences, but my physical existence was fabulous as well.  We were paid what others were paid for the same position in the same town where they lived.  That meant that we got the equivalent of $100 per month, which allowed us to live in an apartment in a very middle-class part of town with views overlooking the Aegean sea.

Joni and a Turkish friend and another Peace Corps volunteer hanging out together

It was true that we didn’t have a refrigerator, so that meant that we bought our meat, fruit and vegetables each day at the market on the way home.  It was true that we didn’t have a clothes washer, so we did have to boil our clothes in a large pot on the stove. But if I remember correctly, we made enough to hire someone to clean our house and boil our clothes, so life wasn’t so bad. I remember the daily baked bread being delivered to the apartment, and so I started my day with freshly baked bread and freshly ground peanut butter. I gained 10 pounds the first month on the job and had to seriously rethink my diet.

I worked at the Bornova Maarif Koleji which was in a suburb of Izmir.  It was a boarding school for boys and went from late elementary to high school.  I taught all levels of English.  I had taught science in my real life, but my minor in college was English. However, the Peace Corps gave us the tools with which to teach our students. Unlike many of the schools in Turkey, where teachers had to teach classes of 60 or more students, our classes were more like twenty-five.  We got to know our students very well.  Many of them went to summer camp with us which was lots of fun.

A Turkish friend wearing an antique Turkish wedding dress

My Turkish never gained the competence of those living in more rural areas. Living in a big city, most of my Turkish friends spoke English better than I spoke Turkish.  But the relationships we built there were unforgettable.  I can honestly say that the Peace Corps experience continues to change and affect my life.  I appreciate other cultures and peoples in ways I doubt I would have.  I know it has helped me with jobs.  And I still keep in touch with some of my old friends.

We were the first Peace Corps training group that did not have to pass a “boot camp” requirement. Thank goodness. I don’t know if I could have joined.  The biggest challenge in Turkey was not physical.  It was political.  At the time, Turkey and Greece were not friendly with each other.  And there was some tension around how our government was dealing with the two countries, especially as it related to Cyprus.  In fact, the Peace Corps only stayed in Turkey until 1971 largely because of the political issues and their concern for their volunteers.  One time, several volunteers jokingly said that Ataturk had been Greek.  They were sent home.

Tom and I went back to Turkey in 2013, and by accident, I reconnected with one of my old students. All of a sudden, word was out and I was getting emails from students who still lived in Izmir and wanted to see me when we arrived there as part of our trip.  It turned out that one of them was now the president of a major university, and his friend (also an old student of mine) actually remembered where I had lived almost sixty years before and took us there, gained entrée with the current resident and we got a tour of my former apartment.  I can’t even begin to describe my feelings about that wonderful day.

Joni and Tom with her old students in Izmir in 2013

Sick of it…or sick with it?

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by Bob Buddemeier

Here we go again — masked, but not yet distanced or locked down.

To consider the future, look at what the Mail-Tribune told us (August 5) about the past and near-present.

COVID cycles tend to run on time scales of weeks — take a look at the smaller hills and valleys in the graph above. That means that if we are very lucky the current spike might be turning around by the end of August.

So what?  The delta variant isn’t killing many vaccinated people. On the other hand it can be a pretty nasty disease even if non-fatal, and introducing it into a community rife with old people having multiple underlying conditions doesn’t seem like a good idea.

From the Mail-Tribune, August 7, p1 — “Breakthrough Cases on the Rise in State:”

In July, 91% of COVID-19 deaths in Oregon were among people who were unvaccinated or partially vaccinated, according to the report. That’s 50 of 55 deaths. [Note that 5, or 9%, were fully vaccinated. ]  While the state didn’t share specific details for each of those cases, officials say of the 42 fully vaccinated people who’ve died in Oregon of COVID-19 since vaccinations began nearly eight months ago, the median age is 83.  [Which is pretty close to the median age of RVM residents.  How do you like that 9% chance?]

Does anyone else wonder what life might be like if we were to get a breakthrough cluster on campus?

But let’s look a little farther into the future, and check in on our friend, Mr. Science.  Well, OK, Dr. Science.  A very recent paper came up with some answers to a question of considerable interest — how do environmental conditions affect the spread of COVID?

The researchers looked at the relationship between environmental conditions and infections in 5 comparable settings — We are only going to look at the 3 temperate sites.

The conditions considered were temperature, humidity, ultraviolet radiation (UV), and something called air drying capacity (ADC).  If you want to know about that last one, read the paper.

The figures below show COVID cases in gray and the environmental variable in blue for Canada, Germany, and Chile (remember that Chile is in the southern hemisphere, so its calendar is backwards).  The result?  All three show the big COVID occurrence in winter — and not just sort of; the relationships are strong and consistent.

Seasonal variation of COVID-19 prevalence and environmental variables. Seasonal variation of weekly COVID-19 prevalence alongside weekly (a–e) temperature, (f–j) specific humidity, (k–o) air drying capacity, and (p–t) ultraviolet radiation across COVID-19 hotspots, such as (a, f, k, and p) Canada in North America, (b, g, l, and q) Germany in Europe, and (e, j, o, and t) Chile in South America.  GeoHealth, Volume: 5, Issue: 6, First published: 17 May 2021, DOI: (10.1029/2021GH000413)

Take a look at our neighbor, Canada.  Cases are well on their way up by mid-October, with a December-January peak.  Looks like we had better get to that herd immunity in two months.

We all need a little encouragement — will we get it from the uncertainties in our knowledge and predictions?

  • We don’t know if the delta variant will act like the 2020 strains (it probably will).
  • There may be other mutants playing in the game 3-4 months from now.
  • We don’t really know how long the immunity lasts from vaccine or infection (that is, how many infectible people there will be 4 months from now).
  • And the wild card — we don’t know what the regular (non-COVID) flu season will be like this year.  COVID precautions probably suppressed it last year, but that’s less likely now.  Will people get those flu shots?  What strains will be active?  Is it possible to get both diseases at the same time?  If we go into a 2-disease outbreak, will precautions be based on one or the combination?

Several of the uncertainties could turn out on the positive (or at least not-too-negative) side.  So are you encouraged?  If so, congratulations, but don’t let it interfere with keeping  precautions high and expectations no more than moderate.

Putting on the Saddle and Riding the Horse

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Getting my Estate Matters in Order

By Joni Johnson

I was sitting with two friends discussing the Estate Matters document that showed up in everyone at RVM’s in-house mailbox.   I am on the committee that created it (although all the Kudos go to Connie Kent, Bob Carter and Jim Ellis- I was just there to say “good job”).  So I knew it was coming and what was in it. My husband, Tom, and I had seen a lawyer just before the 2020-2021 Covid quarantine in order to change all of our legal issues from California to Oregon.  We had paid for our cremation, picked out which color we wanted for our shrouds and everything.  We have no children.  I wasn’t too worried and thought we were in pretty good shape.  However, did I have a handle on everything?  Did I know where everything was? Not exactly.

 First Page of Estate Matters

So there I was, sitting with these two friends, one of whom was Eleanor Lippman discussing the Estate Matters document when she and I decided that we would get our acts together and get started.   That very day, she contacted me to say she was already up to section 8.  There are only 8 sections plus resources.  I wrote back to say that I had painted all afternoon and evening and was very happy with my work.  But it was humiliating.  So I finally decided that I REALLY had to get my act together and get started. Luckily, I tend (after a small 8 pm nap) to have a burst of energy that lasts from 9 pm to midnight or later, so I was on fire.  I got to my computer, clicked on the fillable form and started working.  Well, that was a shock.  I knew a lot about me, but I did not have all the information I needed about my husband.  In my family, I’m the one who does this kind of activity.  Each family is different and so for some it is the wife, for some it is the husband, and for some it is no one. And if you are in the latter category, you better get cracking because while it isn’t that hard, it takes more time than you think.

As you know, Eleanor wrote a beautiful statement for the RVM list. I will attach a link to her statement at the end of the article.  Some of my comments will probably mirror hers.  Some will be different.  First of all, where was my will and cremation information?  Now I have them and have their locations described in the Estate Matters document.  And some of the other pieces of information that would be incredibly helpful in developing an obituary or for documents necessary after our passing, I had nothing written.  Where did I go to school?  What was Tom’s military history?  Where did I live before my last home in California?  I know I got awards but I can’t remember any of them so that is still on the to-do list.

And while looking at the will, I realized that the person we had named as our representative after both of us had passed no longer worked at the same place.  This, of course, required a call and visit to our lawyer which then necessitated a rewriting of our wills and and reconfirmation about why, for us, wills were the best way to go.  In California, we had trusts.  Here, due to financial changes etc, differences in Oregon law and no children to worry about (and yes, our dog is well provided for) we had chosen to opt for individual Wills.  After talking with everyone here, after the Estate Matters project started, people kept telling us that we needed trusts.  So we were very glad to go back to our lawyer and be very specific about why, in our case, wills were the better solution.  In addition to finding a new representative to take care of our financial matters after we die rather than making one of our siblings the administrator, we decided on choosing someone outside the family circle and then paying them for their services out of our estate.

Also, because we have no children, we felt it was important to find someone here in Medford who could act as our health manager in case of illness totally separate from the advanced directive.  This was something I had wanted to do for a long time, but I had let it lie fallow as a future item thinking that somehow it would magically get done.

So thanks to Eleanor and my promise to let her know that I would get my act together, and to her prodding when I didn’t, we are now pretty well moving forward getting everything we need accomplished.

If you are in good shape, I congratulate you.  If not, please let this article move you to get started.  It is never too late.  Until it is.

Here is a fillable form you can use for your estate planning: Estate Matters. Either print it out and fill it in by hand, or complete it on the screen then print it out filled in. This links directly to MyRVM. The Complement will not save your completed document.

Here is the same thing in MS Word — ESTATE MATTERS 6-7-21, which you can edit and personalize after downloading it to your computer.

 

Link to Eleanor Lippman’s comments on the List-Serve:

Implementing my Estate Plan- Revisited

 

 

In The Community

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Congratulations on taking those first steps into a new volunteer activity — and WELCOME!

The Birthday Luncheon Committee has two new members — submitted by Jamie Harris.

Meridel Hedges steps into the position held by Jamie Harris for 14 years.  Meridel and her husband, Dan, moved to RVM from Eagle Point in 2019.  She attended one Birthday Luncheon just before the shutdown, enjoyed it enough that she thought it would be a good committee to join.   Meridel has been involved in  several volunteer committees in the past and will be a wonderful new addition.

Faye Isaak steps into the position held by Sharon Purkerson for 10 years.  Faye, along with her husband, Merl, moved to RVM in 2005.  Faye has been an active member of the community and is well known as the author of the Rogue Valley Manor history book,  “Vision with a View”,  She is also appreciated for her artistic talents, and poetry.   We look forward to having her on the BD committee.

Meridel and Faye join Patti Robb, who very recently also joined the Birthday Luncheon Committee

How About That Complement?

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by Bob Buddemeier

Did you ever stop to wonder about the on-line journal that you’re reading?  If not, it may be time to switch to a different article, but if so, read on.

The Complement was built by David Gordon of Ashland Websites, who continues to coach us and troubleshoot as needed.  No, he doesn’t work for free, but it turns out that this is a remarkably cheap hobby compared to many.

Under the hood, it is powered by WordPress software running on the Bluehost site.  That’s a giant ho-hum for most people, but it’s worth mentioning because those pieces of software account for a remarkably large percentage of the cottage-industry blogs and websites around the world.

The dedicated editorial team consists of Joni Johnson, Connie Kent, Tom Conger, Reina Lopez (photographer), and yours truly.  That is far from all, however.  We offer frequent contributions from Nit-Wit Newz correspondent A. Looney, Russy Sumariwalla, and our outstanding panel of book reviewers (Anne Newins, Bonnie Tollefson, Jan Hines, Liz Caldwell, Connie Kent, Sally Densmore, and Leslie Schettler).  We’ve also had contributions — both written and pictorial — by and about many RVM residents.

What can we do?  Well, we can post pictures, videos, downloadable PDFs (and other formats), and plain old click-and-read articles.  The zippy thing is that we can do it fast and easily — from a final draft in Word to an on-line article can be a matter of minutes — which means we get to concentrate on the fun and exciting parts of journalism instead of bogging down in process and procedure.  As far as we can tell, our readers appreciate that as much as we do.

And how much do those readers read?  The figure below shows monthly views — the total number of articles (posts) that get clicked (whether or not they actually get read).  Over 3,000 — not bad, we think.  How many actual human beings does that represent?  A visit is one person coming to the site (no matter how many posts s/he views).  We get 300-ish in the first few days after an issue comes out, and if we announce a mid-month feature or even just put out a reminder, we get another pulse about half as big.  The trouble is, we have no way of knowing how many visits are due to a few insatiable people coming back again and again.  We think around 300 is a conservative estimate of individual viewers.

 

What can’t we do?  We can’t provide for the non-computer (or non-internet) users.  We’ve looked at it, and it is just too costly — in time and effort as much as in dollars.  Actually, let’s be honest.  We won’t do that, because we aren’t interested in replacing our writing and thinking and editing time with formatting and copying and distribution.  Sorry.

Another thing we can’t do is get to the computer-users who do not look at RVMlist — at least not without going to hit-everybody email blasts, which is really pretty obnoxious.  We do offer a “subscription list” to anyone who wants to get a personal email when the RVMlist notice goes out — just give one of us your email, or send a request to openinforvm@gmail.com.

And finally, we can’t (or again, won’t) connect to myRVM, because the conditions for doing that aren’t consistent with our view of how an independent publication should operate.

Let’s take a look at expectations and actuality.  We set up the structure with three main subdivisions — Arts & Info, News & Views, and Prepare.

Arts & Info was envisioned as the place for resident products — we started out with some poems by RVM poets past and present, and haven’t done that again largely because we’ve had enough other items (we figure 3-4 major ones plus some shorter notes or links for N&V and A&I — fewer for Prepare).  We try to have at least one visual feature, and something on the lighter side each month, at least one book review and the library display, the program schedule, and whatever else comes along.  We could run more some months, but we have actually had people tell us that we put out so much they have trouble getting around to reading it all.

New and Views = facts and opinions; in fact, quite a few of our resident-authored products end up here rather than in A&I because of their focus on a current issue (for example, Asifa Kanji’s “I am Not a Racist, They are“).  We also have how-tos (grocery delivery), general community descriptions (solstice religious holidays), and resident concerns (what happens on hospital discharge).  There are a few glimpses of the outside world — links to the Seattle and Portland Mirabella newsletters, which are very different products providing a look at other PRS facilities.  We also offer links to and reprints of other items of interest; in this issue we reprint an article from the Seattle Mirabella Monthly on one of their residents who contributed to the translation of the Bible into Hawai’ian Pidgin.

Prepare was — and is — envisioned as a repository of accessible and RVM-relevant information on preparedness for emergencies and disasters.  A lot of material has been accumulated there, but we have been marking time during the pandemic because we can’t refine resident plans or instructions until we have a clear picture of RVM emergency plans.  Fortunately, the RVM planning process is within a very few months of being complete, and we expect to be making major updates to the information on the Prepare page.  In the meantime, we have been focusing on Wildfire Season issues, which deserve everyone’s attention.

It seems to be going pretty well, but we would like to get more public feedback — there have only been 44 comments posted.  Some have been substantive, like Doyne Mraaz’s comment on Russy Sumariwalla’s reprinted article, but the overall public number is few.  We get far more personally — for example, only two of the 15 remarks in Life’s End Comments were posted publicly; the rest are anonymized personal communications.

 

Now — the latest — what about VIEWPOINTS?  We wish we could tell you.  We launched it with the conviction that there was another level of candor and debate needed beyond what we were providing with The Complement.  We also launched it with a lot of internal debate and soul-searching and concern about how to to link it to or detach it from The Complement so as to maintain separate personalities.  Well, silly us.  We published a suite of articles on perceived failings in PRS/RVM management vis-a-vis the residents, and another article on one of the most problematic loci of ethnic and geopolitical strife, and guess what?  The crowds with torches and pitchforks completely failed to materialize.  We suspect that this does not mean that RVM is one giant nest of harmony and agreement, but rather that the residents have rather quickly self-selected into readers or non-readers.

It’s nice to be appreciated, but talking only to those who agree with you does not provide much of a feeling of advancing the total of human understanding.  Since we didn’t make a specific schedule commitment for VIEWPOINTS, we’ll let it go fallow for a little while and see if something or somebody turns up.  It could be you — think about it.

What’s New in September

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Do you want to get a personal email notification of a new Complement issue or new material?   Email us at openinforvm@gmail.com and we will put you on the mailing list

Past articles are all on display;  If there is a “Load More” link at the bottom of the page, clicking it will bring up the older articles. 

Special Item #1:  This is our first anniversary edition!

Special Item #2:  The PREPARE page is getting a major ongoing makeover in content and organization

NEWS & VIEWS

Haappy Biirthdaay to us!, from the Staff
      – The Complement is one year old!

The New Friendship Table, by Fred Sommer
      – Getting to know you…

Everything You  Want to Know about Secret, by Joni Johnson
      – Wonderdog!  — profusely illustrated

We Are All First Responders  by Bob Buddemeier
      – Community counts

This Too Could be You!, by Joni Johnson
      – Getting to know you even better…

         in Big, Borrowed, or Both

3550:  the Portland Mirabella quarterly magazine (most recent issue)

Mirabella Monthly, Newsletter of the Seattle Mirabella (Current issue)

 

ARTS & INFO 

Some South American Crafts, by Reina Lopez, ed. Connie Kent
      – Beautiful and distinctive jewelry and fabrics

RVM September – October Event & Entertainment Schedule

September Library Display, by Anne Newins; poster by Jan Hines

Aging and Dying Your Way, by Anne Newins
      – Library display details and a featured book

RVM DVDs on Aging and Dying, by Dave Guzetta
      – A companion to the Library display

RVM Play Reading Group,  text by Tina Vasavada, photos by Reina Lopez
       – Thespians without costumes

PREPARE

The entire Prepare page is being revised and updated — check back frequently

RVM Campus Evacuation Guidelines for Fire, by Bob Buddemeier, based on RVM information
      – with updated RPG directory and maps

 

Comic art by Liz Argall:  thingswithout.com

 

Estate Planning Matters

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On Wednesday 23 June, Beth Knorr, Director of Trust Services at Oregon Pacific Bank, talked about the importance of estate planning on Channel 900. Her presentation is available for later viewing via a link on myRVM.

Here is a fillable form you can use for your estate planning: Estate Matters. Either print it out and fill it in by hand, or complete it on the screen then print it out filled in. The Complement will not save your completed document.

Here is the same thing in MS Word — ESTATE MATTERS 6-7-21, which you can edit and personalize after downloading it to your computer.